We live in a country greatly divided. We seem to not agree with one another on anything. In fact, these days we do not even agree to disagree. We name call. We belittle. We demean. We build ourselves up by tearing others down.

We are just days away from what will likely be a very contentious election. The idea of a free and fair election is already being called into question. Some candidates have made it known that they will contest the results, even before the ballots are counted and finalized. My suspicion is that those candidates only intend to question the idea of a free and fair election if do not win. I am all for recounts if recounts are warranted. But to be questioning the validity of an election before the votes are counted seems ludicrous to me. Just my opinion.

Now allow me to share a thought. What if in this volatile and polarized divide in which we find ourselves, we, every one of us, strived to build a bridge to the “other side.” The “other side” being those people or groups of people who do not look, act, or believe the way we look, act, and believe. In its simplest terms, what is a bridge? It is nothing more than a structure built over a divide that allows people to cross from one side to the other, in both directions.

What if we strived for unity with one another. You say, “No, no, no, I will never think or act or believe like them!” That is not what I am asking for. The idea of “No, no, no, I will never think or act or believe like them” is not unity. That is uniformity. God did not create mankind to be uniform. He did not make us all the same. We are all unique (Psalm 139:13-14). But He does ask us to be unified (1 Peter 3:8).

Uniformity is the state of being uniform in views, beliefs, standards, etc. In uniformity there is no allowance or tolerance for differences. I do not think uniformity is possible nor do I advocate for it. Uniformity seeks to eliminate any and all differences, desiring to create sameness. I do not know about you, but sameness sounds boring to me.     

Unity, on the other hand, is the harmony between different groups; the ability to coexist peacefully and respectfully. Unity treats others with respect, tolerating differences. And tolerating is different from understanding.

Unity is messy. It takes work. The apostle Paul penned these words, found in Ephesians 4:3 – “Make every effort to keep unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” King David wrote this – “How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity” (Psalm 133:1). In his parting words to his disciples, and I believe to us today, Jesus prayed for his followers to be “brought to complete unity” (John 17:20-23).

In context, all the “unity” verses I have referenced in this writing are given to those of us who are Jesus-followers; the Church universal. But, folks, I see no reason why striving to be or become unified cannot be a Humanity universal narrative. It will take work. It will require give and take. It will require acceptance. It will require humility. It will require tolerance over understanding. It will require quieting our voice and listening.

Borrowing from John Lennon, I offer us this thought – “Imagine all the people living life in peace. You, you may say I’m a dreamer, But I’m not the only one. I hope someday you will join us. And the world will be as one” (“Imagine”). There are some very troublesome lyrics in that song, but the call to be as one (unity) is loud and clear.

So, what if, and this is my challenge to all of us, in this great divide in which we live, each one of us takes a step to build a bridge to the “other side.” What if we strive to turn greatly divided into not greatly united!

Let’s be known as a country, a very diverse group of people, who value unity (oneness) over uniformity (conformity)! Just imagine what that will look like! Let’s go build a bridge!    

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I am sure you have a song that when you hear it, you get transported to some other place and time. Every time I hear “The Lion Sleeps Tonight” by The Tokens, I immediately go back to that first kiss with my then girlfriend, now wife.

You are probably familiar with the hymn “How Great Thou Art.” Whenever I hear it, or sing it, it takes me to a place for which I have no words. The hymn is based upon the poem “O Store Gud” (O Great God) written by the Swedish pastor Carl Gustav Boberg in 1885. As he walked home from church one afternoon, a violent thunderstorm raged around him. Thunder clapped. Lightning flashed. Strong winds swept over the meadows. The rains came down.

By the time Boberg got home, the storm had subsided; a peaceful calm had settled in. Out his window he heard birds chirping, church bells ringing, and as he gazed out at the lake, not a single ripple stirred its water. It was this contrast between violent and calm that inspired him to write the poem.

Eventually the poem was translated first into German and then into Russian before becoming a hymn. In 1949, the British missionary Stuart K. Hine translated the hymn from Russian into English and added several verses, making it the hymn we know today. You know how the hymn begins, “O Lord my God, when I in awesome wonder, Consider all the worlds Thy Hands have made, I see the stars, I hear the rolling thunder, Thy power throughout the universe displayed.” And knowing the back story helps verse two make sense, “When through the woods and forest glades I wander, And hear the birds sing sweetly in the trees, When I look down from lofty mountain grandeur, And hear the brook and feel the gentle breeze.”

There might be no better description of God’s love for us than these lyrics from the hymn, “And when I think that God, His Son not sparing, Sent Him to die, I scarce to take it in, That on the cross, my burden gladly bearing, He bled and died to take away my sin.”

And maybe no better response to that love than these words, “Then sings my soul, My Savior God to Thee, How great Thou art, How great Thou art.”

David penned these words as he began his last psalm – “I will extol you, my God and King, and bless your name forever and ever. Every day I will bless you and praise your name forever and ever. Great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised, and his greatness is unsearchable” (145:1-3). Click here to read Psalm 145 in its entirety. I believe this is the only psalm that self-identifies as a song of praise (Hebrew: tehillah).

Thank you, Father for sending Your Son to take away our sins, how great You are!!!  

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Do you ever wake up in the morning feeling like you were in a wrestling match during the night? You lay in bed all night tossing and turning, worrying about the stuff of life. You wake up feeling more tired than when you went to bed. We all face challenges in life, and whether it is financial, physical, relational, vocational, medical, or emotional, not one of us is exempt from the bumps and bruises in life. Sometimes those bumps and bruises only cause a minor sore spot, other times the broken bone is sticking out of your leg.

Many times, both in the little skin bruises and the major bone breaks, we find ourselves in stress overload, and in the darkness of night, those dark nights of your soul, the issues often seem worse. Have you ever felt like that? Or maybe you feel as if you simply cannot get away from your hurts and pains, or worries and fears, and there is no place to rest your weary and worn-down body and soul. Usually walking on a deserted beach while listening to the ocean’s sounds calms your spirit. Or, maybe, sitting quietly on your porch brings some peace. It could be that you close your eyes and dream somewhere over the rainbow; a place where trouble melts like lemon drops.

But, right now, none of those are of any help. The deserted beach seems gloomier than at other times. The porch is eerily silent, leaving your mind to spiral deeper into despair. Somehow, the rainbow has vanished and all you see are storm clouds. Even as you pull yourself into bed, the darkness of your dark room even seems darker.

You are not alone in experiencing those dark nights of your soul. God strengthened Jesus in his “dark night” at Gethsemane (Matthew 26:36-46). He restored Elijah’s hope during his dark night of loneliness on Mount Horeb (1 Kings 19:1-18).

And when Habakkuk wrestled with despair as he wondered why God seemingly was allowing the crimes of Judah to go unpunished, almost defiantly demanding an answer from God (Habakkuk 1:1 – 2:1), he receives assurance that God had a plan (vv. 2:2-3) on how He would deal with those who are unfaithful (vv. 2:4-20).

In the first sixteen verses of chapter 3, as Habakkuk cries out his dark night of the soul to end (vv. 1-3), God finally lays out His plan (4-16). And yet in the midst of Habakkuk’s continuing to wrestle with despair, the book ends with his expression of confidence in the Sovereign and Almighty God (17-19).      

First, let me say that I am in no way diminishing any struggles you might be facing, whether they be big or small. Now let me also say that we have a God who is both interested in your bumps and bruises AND who can also care for those bumps and bruises. He is a both/and God!  

So, I ask you – Are you stressed, worried or burdened? If that is you, then today, and every day, wherever you are, whatever you are facing, Jesus invites you to a place of rest. A place that is immeasurably better than any other place, real or imagined. We find these comforting and inviting words in Matthew 11:28, “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” He goes on in verse 29 to promise us that we will “find rest for our souls” when we come to Him.

That “come to me” is not a one-time offer. It is an offer with no expiration date and one that allows you to use it over and over again. Jesus meets you in the darkest nights of your soul!  

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You have likely heard the saying, “Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”

I disagree with that saying. I believe that the bruises caused by sticks and stones heal much quicker than the deep wounds often caused by name calling. I was made fun of as a young child and into my teen years for my speech impediment and to this day those wounds still rear their ugly head from time to time. My many broken bones and bruises, cuts and scrapes, are all long healed, long forgotten, but the name calling, it still hangs around. Just being honest.

The harmful words that come out of our mouths are sometimes well calculated, fully intended to cause hurt, other times, they just come out in the heat of the moment. And sometimes it is not so much what is said, but rather how it is said that causes hurt.

Sadly, divisive, offensive, and harmful language runs rampant in our culture. We use dehumanizing language (illegals, criminals, aliens, insane) to somehow reduce people to less than human, coded language (trailer park, inner city, diva) to convey negative bias to otherwise neutral terms, and labels (lazy, fat, stupid, gay) which often impact that person’s self-identity and can become ingrained in their psyche.

Words spoken to someone can also bring great encouragement and hope to them. My college football coach, while often critical of on and off the field actions, never once spoke harmful words. His criticism of what we did or did not do motivated us to become better.

When I sat for an interview for acceptance into Vineyard’s ministry school, as I was bumbling my way through telling the director my life’s journey, at some point he stopped me, and said these very words – “Dave, there is something in you that I just love, and even though you don’t believe in yourself, I do.” The trajectory of my life changed in that very moment, and over two decades later those words still sit sweetly in my soul.

When I regularly preached, on the drive home, I would ask my wife for feedback. Regardless of the critique, her words were always honest, shared out of love. They were helpful not harmful. That is why I always asked her.

There are times when things need said that are difficult for the listener to hear. We cannot be afraid to say what needs said, but hard words do not need to be harsh words. Hard words tend to hurt in a helpful way whereas harsh words, they hurt in a harmful.    

The Bible speaks frequently about guarding what comes out of our mouths. Let me share four verses –

 Proverbs 12:18 (NIV) – “The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” Swords inflict deep wounds.

Ephesians 4:29 (GNT) – “Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you.” Are you a builder-upper or a tearer-downer?

Colossians 4:6 (ESV) – “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.” Salt has six functions in food: preservative, flavor, texture, and color enhancer, binding agent, source of nutrients.

Proverbs 16:24 (ESV) – “Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.” Is there anything sweeter than honey?

So, is what you speak to others seasoned with salt, preserving, enhancing, and helping? Sweeter than honey? Or do your words cause harmful and deep wounds that pierce like a sharp sword? 

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Have you ever drawn water out of a well using a bucket? If so, then you know that what is deep down in the well comes up in the bucket, both water and sediment, both clean and dirty. It is also true that what is deep within us also makes it way out. What is in our heart comes out in our actions and words, acting as our guide.   

While the heart might just be the most important organ in our body, in competition with our brain, it is likely also the most misunderstood. You’ve heard, probably even said, “Follow your heart.” There is some truth in that, doing what you love to do and charting your own course, not simply following some predetermined course laid out for you by someone else.

But a word of caution – the Bible gives us a very different viewpoint than just follow your warm and cuddly heart. In Jeremiah 17:9 we read “The heart is more deceitful than anything else, and incurable – who can understand it?” Deceitful literally means “perversion of the truth.” Ouch, that hurts. Sure sounds different than follow your heart.

Jesus, in rebuking the Pharisees (the moral police of their day) after they asked about eating with dirty hands, said that it isn’t what goes in your mouth that makes you dirty, but rather what comes out; and what comes out comes from the heart. (Read Matthew 15:1-20 for the entire interaction.) Again, sure doesn’t sound like follow your heart.

So, is there any hope?

Solomon, the writer of Proverbs, and the wisest man to ever live (1 Kings 3:11-15) says this in Proverbs 4:23- “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Literally, watch over your heart with vigilance. How? By being careful about what you do, what you say, who you hang out with, what you watch and read, on and on. But if your heart, and my heart, are in fact incurable, then how do we guard our hearts? It comes from the power of God’s Spirit living in you, and in me. It comes from a desperate cry to God for help!

David, after being confronted by the prophet Nathan about his adulteress affair with Bathsheba and conspiring to have her husband killed as a coverup, said this in Psalm 51:10 – “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a right spirit in me.”

This should be our prayer every day, not just when we wake up, but all throughout the day as we get ready to face every situation that presents itself to us. You might be saying that you have the power to do it yourself. Well, let’s look at the Hebrew word used in this context for “create.”

Remember, your heart is incurable… incurable outside the power of God.

David knew that. “Create in me a pure (clean) heart.” The Hebrew word used here is bara’. It means to create, shape, or form. You say that makes sense; I can do that. I can bara’ my own clean heart. Not so fast.

This word bara’ is found throughout the Old Testament. In every single case, God is the subject; meaning He is the one doing the creating. We see that same word in Gen 1:1 – “In the beginning, God created (bara’) the heavens and earth. In v.27 we are told that “God created (bara’) man in his own image; he (bara’) him in the image of God; he (bara’) them male and female.” This kind of creating is a divine creating; meaning it is God who initiates a clean heart in us. He initiates. We then work on it.

So, today and tomorrow, and every day after that, will you make this your desperate plea – Oh God, help me guard my heart, and please, by only what only you can do, create (bara’) in me a clean heart, a pure heart, making my spirit right!

What is in your well?

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We have all heard the phrase “He or she knows the big picture.” When we say that about someone, we mean that they grasp the general, overall, or long-term scheme of something rather than just what is right in front of them. On the flipside if someone doesn’t understand the big picture, it means that they do not understand the entire situation or issue. There are times in all of our lives in which we only know certain pieces of the puzzle, and therefore things do not always make sense to us. We cannot see beyond the limits of our understanding.

Often the big overarching question is, why does God allow this or that to happen (or not happen)? To us, sometimes it just does not make sense since we do not know the big picture. While our understanding is limited and imperfect, God’s understanding is limitless and always perfect! Think walking on the ground and trying to view miles and miles of coastline versus seeing that same coastline from the air.

Six years ago, my wife and I took a helicopter ride while at a church conference in Myrtle Beach. Being up in the air gave us a big picture view of the region. From that height we could see large, wooded areas, entire developments, and miles and miles of the sandy coastline. All things we could not easily see or comprehend from the ground. 

We have a God who created the universe and everything in it. Colossians 1:16 tells us this, “For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him.”  

And not only did God create it all, but He also knows the big picture, He has a plan in mind. We read these words in Isaiah 46:10, “I declare the end from the beginning, and from long ago what is not yet done, saying: my plan will take place, and I will do all my will” (HCSB).

God is not confined to our timetable nor is He limited in His understanding. He is never early, never late, and maybe what bugs us the most, He is never in a hurry, even when “hurry” is what we want. Most certainly there are times when we wish things would move quicker, especially those things causing us great difficulty… but we find these words in Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” Following this verse, in vv.2-8, fourteen opposites are juxtaposed; examples of how life is comprised of varying seasons. And v.11 ends like this, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.”   

And for those of us who “need to have every detail planned out,” the truth is, God has ultimate authority over time. Here is what Jesus said to his disciples right before being taken up into Heaven regarding when the kingdom would be restored – “It is not for you to know the times or dates the Father has set by his own authority” (Acts 1:7).

So, with all that in mind, today I ask – can you, will you, trust that God knows the big picture and is in control, even when what you see looks out of control and doesn’t make sense? And I think we can all agree, not much makes sense these days.  

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